Parent-Teacher Partnerships: The Key to Your Child’s Success!
Building strong and respectful relationships with your child’s teachers can help them get the most out of their time at school.
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The 5th of October is World Teacher's Day. Teachers all over the world receive Thank You cards, flowers, and gifts. Some even put on stage performances for them. Possibly, it's the only day on which we acknowledge the contributions and efforts of the people who play such an important role in our children's futures.
But think about this: your child's teacher is the next most important person (after you, of course) with whom your child spends a major part of their day.
Teachers make most of the decisions about how they spend their time, all while guiding and directing them along the way. They can help them develop their social and emotional skills and shape them into well-rounded individuals.
Studies have shown that when teachers have a positive attitude and behaviour towards their students, it has a positive effect on the character development and success of students.
However, the opposite is also true. When teachers have misconceptions, negative attitudes or negative behaviours, it impacts students too. Not only do their grades suffer, but their self-esteem does, too. And then, parents are forced to become staunch advocates for their children.
But when we're sticking up for our children, is it possible to overdo it?
Some parents who genuinely want the best for their kids might become very involved in their education. They may give extensive input to teachers or get highly engaged in classroom activities.
Research has shown that the children of such involved parents– the ones who are always present and supportive of their children's efforts, may sometimes face challenges in developing independence later in life.
The best thing is to try to strike a balance. That means being involved without being over-imposing, having faith in the teacher's efforts, but at the same time advocating for your child when it's necessary.
Because when parents and teachers are on the same page…
Kids reap the benefits
Studies have shown that when parents and teachers have a positive relationship, children get better grades, are more motivated, have fewer behavioural problems, and adapt better to new situations.
And they don’t just do better at school, but at home too.
A win-win for parents and teachers
As a parent, when you nurture a good relationship with the teacher, you’re in the loop about their progress and any important changes that you need to know about. You’ll also be able to identify ways in which you can support your child’s learning.
Having a good relationship with your child’s teacher also makes it easier for you to share any concerns and to work together to find solutions.
Also, parents who are more involved tend to see teachers in a positive light. Ultimately, that boosts the teacher’s morale.
‘‘Teachers who have strong and healthy relationships with parents also often have a better idea of the child’s home life. That can help them modify their strategies to best suit the needs of the child.’’
For example, if the teacher is aware of a major event in the child’s family, like a birth or a death, they can try to be more empathetic in their interactions with the child.
When parents and teachers work together as partners, they communicate more effectively, have stronger relationships with each other, and hone the skills necessary to support the child throughout their school journey.
So, how do you forge a meaningful connection with your child’s teacher?
Here are a few ways to get off on the right foot with your child’s teacher and ensure their success in school:
Communicate well
We all know how important communication is for relationships, and the relationship you have with your child’s teacher is no exception. Communication is what leads the way for how the school year will look and how solutions to concerns will be found.
Avoid the negative talk
Avoid talking negatively about the teacher in front of your child. When you show them respect, your child will likely follow your example.
Understand the teacher’s perspective
It can be a natural instinct to advocate for our children, but try to make an effort to understand where the teacher is coming from, too. It’s good to remember that they bring years of professional experience and expertise to the table. It’s only fair to respect their judgement.
Recognise the teacher’s efforts
Say something positive about the way they taught your child something or about how your child enjoys their class. It can boost their morale. Plus, the positivity will spill over into the interactions they have with your child in class.
Don’t forget the magic words
Saying “Thank You” for the things they do for your child goes a long way in building positive relationships.
And remember that you share the same goal. Teachers want the best for their students, and you want the best for your child. Working together towards this common goal sets your child up for success.
So, on this teacher’s day, make a decision to bridge the gap and take the first step towards a meaningful connection with your child’s teacher. And, of course, don’t forget to wish your teachers a “Happy Teachers’ Day!”
Source:
-Lekli L, Kaloti E.(2015). Building Parent-Teacher Partnerships as an Effective Means of Fostering Pupils’ Success. Academic Journal of Interdisciplinary Studies.
-Ulug, M, Ozden, M.S., Eryilmaz, A. (2011). The Effects of Teachers’ Attitudes on Students’ Personality and Performance. Procedia- Social and Behavioural Sciences.
